My vaginal lips are very dry and itchy, and sometimes they bleed.

The first thing is that you do really need to get a diagnosis from the doctor, as it may not be menopausal dryness but an infection of some sort. 

If the doctor diagnoses it as menopausal dryness then applying vitamin E oil may be helpful. Also, if you have dry skin elsewhere, you may find that an Omega-7 supplement improves things for you.

Eileen Durward