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I am in a new relationship but having sex is a problem for me as my vagina seems to be too small. I have never had this problem before but it is very painful and embarrassing, as well as frustrating. I am using a gel but it doesn't seem to help. Is this normal? My last sexual relationship was 17 months ago and everything was OK then. I was on a small dose of HRT for 4 years but I finished it 12 months ago and I have been totally period free for 14 months now. What can I do as I am afraid to try again?

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